
By summer time this, along with some others need to be in my possession...
This however is not the point of my post. Today and for a long many years before, black women have pondered the idea of love..is it attainable, where do I find it, is it for me?! We are constantly the victims of sexual assault, rape and the lack of information...we are often ignorant to many situations..we are emotionally vulnerable. This is not to discourage or exploit the experiences of black women, it is only to educate and provide support. This notwithstanding, with all this against us, it is often difficult to pursue healthy relationships. I have provided the example of Michelle Obama and her husband Barack as hope that it is possible and can be achieved by us all if we so want it.
Love is not for everyone...a monogamous relationship is not desirable nor possible for every human being, and that's alright. What's not alright is acting like it's for you when you a) Know that it's not or b)Are just not ready for all that committment. The first thing to a successful anything be that career, relationship, etc, is being honest with yourself. If you can not do this, you can neither expect it from someone else nor expect longevity. A lie only begets another lie..and lying with yourself will only endure for so long. You need to get to a place where you love yourself first and foremost and then only after will you be able to love someone else. Don't go out dating, thinking that every dude you meet is going to lead to "the one". Where in life does it say that you need to marry and settle down right away? When did this become some type of race? When you rush something, you make mistakes. Take your time..there's nothing wrong with taking things slow. Love is not an emotion you're going to feel on impact..it's something you build up to and then later build upon.
Another thing ladies, take chances...date outside of your "type". Keep an open mind and be free to experience new things. Don't be freaked out by the fine gentleman you met at Starbucks that wants to take you rock climbing on the first date..so what it's not your usual dinner and a movie, you never know, it could lead to something special. When you only date a "type" you cut out all the possibilities to love that could be awaiting you. It's good to know what you want, but if what you want has not worked for you thus far, then it's time to try a new strategy. All I'm saying ladies, is- keep your options open! Don't go looking for love, it will find you..when the circumstances permit and when the time is right...and for others it just randomly gets bestowed upon you. Love is an amazing feeling to feel, when its right and when you have someone who loves you back. It's out there if you want it...just free up your self.
But OMG, where did my manners go? I done lost my mind..so let's get properly acquainted shall we. I go by Miss. Jones, yes I know, pretty common eh, but how can you forget it. I'm studying communications at a fine establishment in Canada's capital...for my non-Canadian readers, no Canada is not covered with snow and we do not live in igloos. As I was saying..so I'm studying communications and soon enough I will be embarking upon a career in public relations. In my spare time I enjoy blogging (as is the case right now), looking at the gossip sites, shopping granted the funds are up lol, doing yoga, and having some alone time for self-evaluation..amongst other things.
From time to time I will probably be dropping the realness from my life experiences, or day to day events/activities..but my main contribution to this blog will be segments of love and relationships..and random others lol. I have been rambling on and on for some time now, and really, ya'll must be losing focus. So, on that note, kick off your shoes and relax your feet lol...this is one ride that you're bound to enjoy!
Kisses Sugars...muah* muah*
Buh Bye My Lil'Dumplings.
So it has been confirmed that Ms.Nasir is expecting, and is in her first trimester, with a little bump showing and all.
"she's carrying hip hop royalty" says one source...
to that comment made above... i think were forgetting that NAS has a child already, which she is considered royalty as well..
remember her? Destiny, from his drama filled previous relationship with Carmen? ( she also pulled a Karrine "SUPERHEAD" Steffans, and wrote a tell-all book, about her life with the notorious and talented rapper NASIR JONES)
BUT...
you guys who know me know that NAS is an all time FAVE, i absolutely , la la la LOVE him, alongside JAY-Z, ANDRE 3000, FONZWORTH BENTLEE....too many to name...
LOL
i'm sooo lame
for a second when i first seen the news my heart fell... LOL
BUT
congrats!
Rello
*sigh... yes it's true...
It's Snowing In Aspen...
Rello
It's Snowing in Aspen...